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Art, Being Irish he had an abiding sense of tragedy which sustained him through temporary periods of joy.― W.B. Yeats, Cheer up - it could be worse :D, Films, Humanity, Instead of weeping when a tragedy occurs in a songbird's life it sings away its grief. I believe we could well follow the pattern of our feathered friends. -W. Shakespeare, Music, Poetry, Shatter all that matters and step out of a tragedy, Show me a hero and I will write you a tragedy. -F. Scott Fitzgerald, There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants- and the other is getting it. - Oscar Wilde, This could end in tragedy Pour yourself all over me, Top Tunes, Tragedy, Tragedy is when I cut my finger. Comedy is when you fall into an open sewer and die. -Mel Brooks, Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.'No matter what sort of difficulties how painful experience is- if we lose our hope- that's our real disaster.- DL, Tragedy When you lose control and you got no soul
We adore tragedy. Think of your favourite film, your most beloved book, and I venture there will be elements of tragedy within those pages, upon that screen, in almost every case. Some of our finest works of art hold true to pain, portraying heartbreak at their core, and a few exemplars are listed at the end of this piece, those which have touched the Cloud’s own billowing heart.
So why are humans so attached to reliving tragic narratives, in whatever form; is it for the sole purpose of entertainment, or is enlightenment sought, some vicarious gleaning of knowledge?
Tragedy burns, it cuts; it leaves trenchant scars on our hearts and minds, some so painful we’ll never truly recover from the emotional blow dealt; lesions so barbarous our mind’s fingers run across them, pluck them softly each day of our lives. This wretched wounding lives within, inhabits us and we it, breathing into existence as the backdrop to our days, weeks, months . . . years. No matter how well-hidden in the vaults of the psyche, or how assiduously denied, when exposed in others, in art as in life, the raw fascination surfaces.
With time, we come to readily recognise tragedy, pathos, woe and the calamitous, know them well as though old acquaintances. Downtrodden and oppressed fictional characters often rise triumphant at the end of tales, forging hope (no matter how unrealistic and elusive our own nirvana, moksha, or salvation, may be) that the dark will be vanquished by the light, that we too might find such redemption. Eventually. Some promised balm for our anguish, our grief. Some reason to go on.
But why not an equal fascination with love? Surely love affects us just as much as tragedy, with just as much ferocity? Well, love may indeed be beautiful, warm, engulfing in its prepossessing, its viscerally felt power, shining bright rays of triumph across our inner landscapes; but love leaves no surface scars until its tragic end walks into the room; only then do we see the hurt flesh; only then is our morbid fascination piqued.
Therefore tragedy will always be both more pervasive and more perversely alluring to us, whether its form be taken within fiction, fable, apologue, poetry, drama, film, music — still we unwittingly welcome its cold embrace whenever it presents itself; still we are entranced, caught up in its bleak, compelling advance.
Love can survive without tragedy, but it is something we do not need to overcome, to rid ourselves of. They may both walk hand-in-hand, say, at the closing of another’s life, in some dark, visited adversity, or as a natural correlate to compassion.
But only one of them ever leads the way.
- The Cloud
Esme’s Choices
(Please do leave your own choices in the comment section as I may well pilfer some for the book if I think they fit the dark bill)
Stories
Watership Down — Book (1972) Film (1978)
Cloud Atlas — David Mitchell— Book (2004) Film (2012)
Fight Club—Chuck Palahniuk— Book (1996) Film (1999)
The Count of Monte Cristo — Book (1845) Film (1934)
Requiem for a Dream — Alexander Dumas — Book (1978) Film (2001)
The Way We Were — Film (1973)
The Remains of the Day — Kazuo Ishiguro Book (1989) (Film (1993)
Moulin Rouge — Film (2001)
V for Vendetta — Book— Alan Moore (1989) Film (2005)
Meet Joe Black — Film (1999)
Oedipus Rex — Sophocles — Book (429BC),
Doctor Who — Episode — Journey’s End (2008)
Somewhere in Time — Film (1980)
The Cook, the Thief, His Wife & Her Lover — Film(1989)
Brief Encounter — Film (1945)
Les Misérables — Book (1862) Musical (1987)
On Chesil Beach — Ian McEwan (2007)
Pretty much all of Shakespeare’s shenanigans (Ye olden days),
Synecdoche, New York — Film (2009)
Harold and Maude — Film (1971)
The Muppets — Pigs in space — Film (1978)
Possibly not that last one.
Poetry
Dulce et Decorum Est — William Owen, 1920
Do not go gentle into that good night — Dylan Thomas 1951
Put Out My Eyes — Rainer Maria Rilke 1905
I Am Not Yours — Sara Teasdale, 1884 – 1933
Annabel Lee — Edgar Allan Poe 1849
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep — Mary Elizabeth Frye 1932
Love’s Secret — William Blake, 1757 – 1827
When We Two Parted — Lord Byron 1788–1824
For A Sad Lady — Dorothy Parker 1926
I measure every Grief I meet — Emily Dickinson 1830–1866
Sonnet 42: — Edna St. Vincent Millay 1923
A Dream Within A Dream — Edgar Allan Poe 1849
The Room Of My Life — Poem by Anne Sexton 1967
Funeral Blues — W H Auden 1938
Art
Pietà — Michaelangelo 1498–1499
Tristram and Iseult — Edward Burne-Jones 1872,
The Taj Mahal — Ustad Ahmad Lahauri 1648 –1653
Ophelia — John Everett Millais 1851–1852
The Burghers of Calais — Auguste Rodin 1894–85
The Scream — Edvard Munch 1893
Saturn Devouring His Son — Francisco de Goya 1820
Uranium and Atomica Melancholica Idyll — Salvador Dalí 1945
Old man in Sorrow — Vincent van Gogh 1890
Angel of Grief — William Wetmore Story 1894
Black on Maroon — Mark Rothko 1958
Laocoön and His Sons — Second Century BC — unearthed 1506 BC
Self-Portrait with Thorn Necklace and Hummingbird — Frida Khalo 1940
Music
Adagio for strings — Samuel Barber 1936
Adagio in G minor— Tomaso Albinoni 1958
Hurt — Johnny Cash 2002
The Sound of Silence — Simon & Garfunkel 1964
Nearly Forgot My Broken Heart — Chris Cornell 2015 [All the more tragic as he killed himself in May 2017]
The Winner Takes It All — ABBA — 1980
Time Has Told Me — Nick Drake 1969
The Cloud Atlas Sextet — 2012
A Million Little Pieces — Placebo 2013
Bright Eyes — Simon & Garfunkel 1979 [Esme can be heard blubbering away in the background]
The End — The Doors 1967
Superstar— Carpenters 1971
Halo — Depeche Mode 1990
Ne me quitte pas — Jacques Brel 1959
Scheherazade — Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov 1888
Rhapsody on a theme of Paganini 18th variation – Rachmaninoff 1934
So . . . what’s your poison?
Just like when people slow down while driving to look at an accident on the side of the road, people are attracted to tragedies, disasters, chaos, and mayhem. Perhaps that explains why Donald Trump is America’s President.
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A true tragedy if ever there was one Fandango, though the aim of my post and references lean more towards the kind of tragedy people actually find some comfort or pleasure in, of which I can see not one jot in the POTUS. nods
Thanks for stopping by Fandango.
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Maybe if he gets indicted, impeached, and imprisoned, there will be some comfort and pleasure.
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Now that’s more like it. One can only hope!
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Now that’s a thoroughly impressive list, Madam.
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Thank you sir. Only the best from Esme you know. I’m glad you agree.
Esme bowing and clinking a glass of something with Mr Pink upon the Cloud
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Max Richter, Swimmer (expanded to On The Nature of Daylight, then really, really expanded to run pretty much through the entire film, Arrival… which is superb)
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Oooh, thank you John! I have a few comments to publish with suggestions and thank you heartily for yours. I shall be watching/listening to them all as none are familiar to me.
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I’ve seen Arrival! I can’t recall the names of all the films these days, they just blur into one, but it was a really different take on the usual ‘alien invasion’ theme and I enjoyed it a lot, being a fan of scores (Thomas Newman is my life-long love) I do remember it, and liked it a lot. I haven’t seen the shorter 2 versions/films though so will get onto them.
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Gosh .. what a great list. I can relate to so many, Esme.
We yearn for connection and love that will repair our past wounds, hurts and misunderstandings. Tragedies open the wound and give us insight beyond suffering.
In that moment of yearning it becomes incredibly sweet, as we touch the love within us.
Lets bask in the unrequited and the fullness of our hearts…. which keeps us in the here and now.
💕🙏💕
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‘Tragedies open the wound and give us insight beyond suffering.‘ – Perfect. The rest of your words are excellent too, but this line particularly hits the spot for me Val. Thank you, and I’m glad you feel a kinship with my lists.
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It would be nice to think that we feel some noble emotions in the face of tragedy, but perhaps we simply enjoy thinking that we’ve dodged a bullet. Or, less cynically, perhaps ordinary life feels brighter by comparison?
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I think people feel all you say and more for deep tragedy, there are many facets to it, but there will be cases where we look and feel thankful it was not one of us, or a loved one, hopefully, married with compassion, and without doubt ordinary life feels . . . well – Terry Pratchett used this as a curse in his books – ‘May you live in interesting times‘ – looking back through history, ‘interesting’ is rarely a good thing with humanity. Gratitude is a vital part of contentment too. Thank you Meeka, great stuff and most appreciated.
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Yeah, we /are/ living in ‘interesting’ times right now, aren’t we? -hugs-
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One film, two books. I stuck with the ones I just had to rewatch/reread several times and will again. All these seem to be little known and unjustly.
“Horace Sippog And The Sirens’ Song” by Su Walton. (https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/su-walton/horace-sippog-and-the-sirens-song/)
“The Tokaido Road” by Lucia St. Clair Robson, (The Tokaido Road by Lucia St. Clair Robson)
“The Chain” (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088898/)
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Oops! Messed up the cut’n’paste of the Tokaido Road link, which should have been https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/544369.The_Tokaido_Road 😳
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Thank you Ben! I know of none of them and shall be watching and reading all offerings at some point.
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Anything by Sokurov , which strikes me as deeply tragic…
Mother and Son
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I’ve watched the clip and this one too
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119711/videoplayer/vi4036624665?ref_=tt_ov_vi
And it looks beautiful. Thank you Dear Prospero, I will look into this director further, in the comments someone writes – ‘You have to have patience for the abstract and mystical’ – I have just that.
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One more short clip: the moment nuclear war revisits us. I think this qualifies as tragedy.
Trompe l’oeil. The house in the distance matches the perspective of the model house.
Tarkovsky for me is the greatest (director), the one who invented a new language, true to the nature of film, as it captures life as a reflection, life as a dream. [ Ingmar Bergman ]
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Intriguing stuff, I caught the matching of abodes, and the power is there a full film of this or just wee shorts?
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Esme, crying over spilt milk.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA. Perfect.
Esme expecting no less from him upon the Cloud
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spit milk??? Someone removed the L from my keyboard.
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I found the varmints and stole it back for you.
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Well said there, Esme. However, I believe Pigs in Space is a Tragedy. Though I’ve never seen the film, the mere title is tragic. But more to your point. Could your premise be as simple as, tragedy loves company?
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Here’s a brief clip, it has this line in it –
‘Hey, would a panic, dream-induced ghost of an ex-lover lie?’
The title alone is tragic yes, the clip may raise a smile.
Tragedy does love company, it’s certainly true, for it is easier to stand the state, if one has someone else to lean on, who gets the pain, or shares it. Not that one would wish that upon another, but it does help.
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To Kill a Mockingbird.
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Great addition nanaoyz.
“Simply because we were licked a hundred years before we started is no reason for us not to try to win”
Thank you.
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I can’t get Professor Tabboo’s comment to appear, despite having approved it, nor my reply (presumably he has angered the Gods, as ever), so I am pasting both here, let them smite me if they must beams
Oh my Dear Lady Esme. First, it is either good or bad that I am enamoured with your prose. Second, I read this and was hooked, spellbound and full of identification. But instead of babbling away I will simply share this short video-clip. It relates here like only a Greek can convey the beautiful art of alive and tragic… (excuse the cinema of Hollywood)
Apologies! In my multiple juggling-disaster of WordPress comments here, there, everywhere with a beer (whoops! may I have a broom, dust-pan, and dish-rag? the damn floor keeps rising!) I absent-mindedly dropped my “poison” to deposit here! Maybe I shouldn’t mixed my Malbec with Guiness. (burps while pullin’ up his open fly trousers)
Three (or is it four?) Professor Poisons of Film/Stories:
About Time — (Film) 2013
La La Land — (Film) 2016
Out of Africa — (Book) 1937 (Film) 1985
Your list, however, is quite spectacular Esme! Many of my favourites as well. We must be kindred story worms. (smirky grin)
In reply to Professor Taboo:;
I have put both your comments as one Professor and will say I’m pleased you came back with some more offerings in hand beams. I knew you’d like some of the lists, and interestingly enough, ‘About Time’ was on my original list but I felt I should slim said lists down a little as they were getting a tad long. It is very much a tragedy. I loved Out of Africa when I first watched it, way back, the music and the story is very moving and I’d forgotten about it Taps her skull. ‘La-La’Land made me want to stab cushions for a good hour or so, but it picked up by the end of the film and even drew forth a small tear or two, so I can see where you’re coming from with it.
(burps while pullin’ up his open fly trousers)– By all the Gods! *shoves a tarpaulin over him.
‘We must be kindred story worms. (smirky grin)’ – Put that worm away sir!
Esme Cloud laughing and thanking the Prof whilst weighing the tarpaulin down with big rocks.
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Some, numbed by circumstance, or perhaps due to some mishap in the neural circuitry, feel little — a dangerous condition. Feeling nothing emotively, they yearn to do so in order to feel alive, and so they may cut themselves, self-harming, or they may self-sabotage their lives and relationships; or, safest, choose to experience powerful feelings through vicarious contact with the tragic, or with the deeply suffering, via the arts and the not so artful. I suspect that’s also the perverse appeal (for some) of expressing hatred, as again it makes the hater feel vitally alive with feeling. Perhaps it’s this that tips the scales of fascination in favour of tragedy/hatred over love/amity — because we can still feel and feel alive without love; though if we feel no emotions, and if we don’t feel vitally alive, there’s a desperate lack, one which perhaps calls for a desperate remedy: a resort to the tragic or to irrational vexation. Tragedy sells religious ideology (look at the iconography), of course, and fear of the tragic drives extremism in politics; it’s a powerful driver of human action, it seems, perhaps the near equal to fear? Beautifully written post, Esme, and certainly thought-provoking. A little rambling off the top of my head here, apologies. HX
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P.S. A little contribution to your fine list, an exemplar of how tragedy can be sublimely beautiful in its expression, all at once. HX
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Beautiful. I’ve listened to it all and it isn’t my usual musical fare. but it’s perfect for this theme.
Thank you again H. X
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Yes, anything that makes someone ‘feel’ when they don’t believe they can feel anything anymore, or when the wiring is out will be drawn to whatever they can that has an impact, and pain is the simplest and fastest avenue to feeling something I reckon, there is, of course, tragedy in this as a state, as there is with self-saboteurs, people who pull their own rugs out from under their feet, again and again, hitting the floor hard every time — they too dive into the dark, and those are good points to make Hariod, ones which tie in with the whole ‘feeling alive’ buisness, the jolt from the mundane to something with a far stronger impact, it can be addcitive for those who hate, a kick of sorts. We all get our dopamine highs from some activity, and many are addicted to the hits encountered. “it’s a powerful driver of human action, it seems, perhaps the near equal to fear?” – Without doubt. Fear moves the masses, tragedy can run blindly and push the opinions of many, or it can be wielded as a force, one to be sorely reckoned with.
No apologies for spinning thoughts out here H, not at all, especially when they’re such fine ones. Do you agree with the points I made too though, out of curiosity? ❤
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Yes, I agree with your opening proposition, that one’s favourite works of art are likely to contain elements of tragedy. The first painting that ever deeply moved me (and certainly amongst my favourites) is Bellini’s Madonna of the Meadow, which portrays the Virgin Mary and the baby Jesus, but depicts him as if he were dead, as a prefiguring. https://www.nationalgallery.org.uk/paintings/giovanni-bellini-madonna-of-the-meadow My favourite piece of music is Bach’s St Matthew Passion, and I can’t hear the opening bars without welling-up, I really can’t. HX
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Then I must share it, not to make you well up, but because people are more likely to listen if there’s an instant link.
Art is fascinating, the effects one piece can have compared to another depending upon the person, it’s so very singular. Have you seen that painting in real life, close up?
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Yes, I saw that painting at The National Gallery. It was a strange and deeply affecting experience, because I became transfixed by it, and stood staring at it for maybe 10 or 15 minutes, which is a bloody long time to be looking at a single painting in a public space. And I couldn’t work out why I was so drawn to it, but I knew it had a power over me in that moment and that it meant something, even though I wasn’t then, and nor have I ever been, religious. I mentioned above that the painting is a prefiguring of the pieta — the Virgin Mary cradling the dead body of the adult Jesus. That’s an incredibly powerful thing, and my being captivated by that painting was a kind of prefiguring for me too, as 30-odd years later I came to cradle the dead body of my grandson. The strange experience with Bellini’s vision (which was far more powerful than I make it sound) has some sort of explanation in light of that, or at least, there’s a correlation that makes sense to me. HX
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Thank you for those words dear Hariod, I’ve prvate messaged you in reply. ❤ ❤ ❤ – Esme X
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Oh, that is probably the best rendition (or joint best with The Monteverdi Choir / John Eliot Gardiner) of The Saint Matthew Passion. Stephen Cleobury (the conductor/MD) is fantastic, as is Emma Kirkby. Absolutely wonderful choice! And yes, it made me well-up as soon as the orchestra struck up. “Oh Lamb of God unspotted, there slaughtered on the cross, serene and ever patient though scorned and cruelly tortured.” Strong and tragic stuff! HX
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I’m glad I chose so well! I listened to three versions beforehand, that was the one I liked the best. Must be quite something live.
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It’s a quite amazing experience live. You’ve got a double orchestra, a double choir, and (dependent upon tempo) around three and a half hours of incredible music — what some have described as the pinnacle of western art. The tension is incredible because the performers know they’re attempting something monumental, and performances are not commonplace because of the expense of putting it together (it needs rehearsing!) and the fact that it’s generally only performed at Easter (in cathedrals) and doesn’t draw the Christmas crowds that, say, Bach’s Mass or Handel’s Messiah would. Seeing it live is one of those once-in-a-lifetime things, I think, and the memory will last a lifetime. That being so, then it makes sense to go to the very best production, such as the one in your video. Of course, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, though it is indeed a monumental and emotionally intense work of art, and has tragedy at its main thematic. HX
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Sounds lovely H, I have attended a few classical concerts, and the difference between a recording and the real thing is immense. I haven’t heard anything in a church mind you. The acoustics would be excellent I imagine.
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A wonderful and poignant selection, Esme. Thanks so very much ❤
Somewhere in Time is a film I’ve nearly memorized. I watched it in 1983, shortly after the tragic death of my first wife Jeanne. We visited the Grand Hotel on our honeymoon in 1974, there are multiple synchronicities that continue to haunt me to this day. The date on the penny? 1974. I need to write a simulcast fragment of my own on them, yes I do. 🙂 ❤ 🙂
Lisa also feels roots in the early 1910’s, pre Great War 1912. We visited the Hotel del Coronado in the late 90’s, about the time that another personal tragic film choice was released: What Dreams May Come.
Matheson knows my tragic nerves, he does indeed.
“Richard: This is not for a play, Miss Roberts. This is something very personal. [shows her the pocket watch]
Laura: Where did you get that?
Richard: Well, she gave it to me, ma’am. At the opening night of a play that I wrote at Millfield College about eight years ago.
Laura: That watch was very precious to her. She never, never left it out of her possession. It disappeared the night she died.
Richard: She died that night?”
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You are most welcome Bill, and how poignant regarding Jeanne too ❤ X, you should indeed write a fragment of your own. I think everyone should actually, we have so many powerful joys and tragedies within us, I find it does help to send them out again, to see them fly. ‘Somewhere in Time’ was a film played on video again and again when I was a youngster, I have seen it countless times and find the music quite haunting, plus, it really is a beautiful film, the ending gets me every time. Edward and Joseema could well have the music as their own theme thinking about it. The score, as I’m sure you know, is Rachmaninoff’s Rhapsody on a theme of Paganini – 18th variation, and it should have made the list, so I’m going to add it now.
Here it is for those who would hear it, a lovely version on piano.
I found ‘What Dreams May Come’ so sad I’ve never been able to watch it all you know. This is quite true. Esme leaks a lot due to her capacity to feel whilst imagining the fictional real, or the real fictional, it’s a bit of a bind actually, but better to feel too much than not enough I say. Another one – also starring Robin Williams – which I took off the list just because it was getting too long, is ‘The Fisher King’ – A hugely underrated film that combines comedy and soaring tragedy so well.
I appreciate you sharing this with me and the others here Bill, thank you so much. X
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Thanks so much for the piano interpretation, Esme. My kids knew to understand my tears on watching this film: “Oh, ok. He’s watching that movie.” I haven’t seen “The Fisher King.” It’s now at the top of the video list. Underrated films so often become the very best fare. Gristy stuff gone great -)
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Very true Bill, I think you’ll really enjoy it, as I say it has funny moments and it’s very well acted too. hugs him x
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Wonderful thoughts here Esme. I’m with you, as I too have a draw to tragedies, although I’ll admit that sometimes, a tragedy well done is something I want to experience only once. For instance, The Idiot by Dostoevsky is one of my favorite tragedies, but so sad to me was the ending that I would have a hard time reading that book again, despite how much the story gripped me the first read through.
I think there are a number of reasons we are drawn to a tragedy and you hit on several of them. I think such stories can feel like a way to prevent tragedy in our own life. Like we might learn from the mistakes of others, but I think that more importantly they connect us all as human beings. I think when tragedy strikes us in our own lives, it can be such an isolating experience and so a reminder that tragedy is a human experience and that we are never alone when tragedy strikes us is important. I also think that no truly tragic situation occurs without also reminding us of the intense beauty in the world and the impermanence of all things. Maybe that beauty is innocence, maybe it’s love, a passion for art, music, or science…what is lost must be beautiful to behold before we recognize something as a tragedy. In this way I do think that it is a somewhat of a double-edged sword because I think the degree to which you can be impacted by tragedy in your own life or through stories is proportional to the beauty, the wonder, and the love you feel.
Sometime ago I asked myself why there are far fewer happy songs than sad ones, and came to the same conclusion as you did about there not being anything to overcome when it comes to feelings of joy and love. We are in the moment when we feel those things, and more often we just want to enjoy them rather than write about them. I’ve always been a terrible picture taker, because when I am experiencing something that I would want to capture, I am to busy lost in the experience to remember to catch it. Since having kids, I’ve become better about taking pictures, but I would say that I often feel like the processing of taking a picture is an interruption to the joy I’m feeling, because then I’m worried about whether or not the picture turned out, or upset that my kid just stopped smiling or that I was a minute too late snapping the sunset. But misery, pain, these are all things that we know are harmful to us long term, and if we are sick we want to be well. But when it comes to the feeling of loss that tragedy brings the solutions we try aren’t always the best. Getting lost in stories of tragedy though I think are a healthy option, and I do think it does prepare us, teach us, condition us a little, giving us a little more emotional fortitude. When I lose myself in a sad story, I often feel stronger for it in the end.
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Thank you Swarn, I’m with you, as there are some films, books and songs I can never revisit. I feel doing so would shorten my life for the variety of emotional strain taken. But nonetheless, I’m still more than a small amount glad to have experienced them. I can’t watch The Elephant Man again. I can’t read Song of Stone by Iain Banks again. I do not intend purposefully listening to Seasons in the Sun by Terry Jacks. Good grief. Literally, ha! Interestingly enough, I can reread any poetry that tugs at the heart or is terrible in its darkness repeatedly. I have a kinship with poetry that rises above other mediums I think, or perhaps it’s that the duration of emotion triggered is much shorter than all the other mediums.
I savour all moments of joy, live them, yes, but I also force lost of people to run together for a few seconds and pull funny faces so as to capture those seconds and keep them captive forever, mwahahahaha. I do though. I love capturing time, but it must never be at the expense of the experience. An example; I attended a concert last year and the person I went with filmed almost the whole show on their mobile phone, by means of either video or photography. They missed the concert. They should have some means of allowing mobile phones into concerts whilst temporarily disabling the video mode to my mind.
Great comment sir, the video you added afterwards is not available when opened, if you give me the title I’ll get a version that will play if possible and add it to your comment.
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